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How to search for the sense of control on life, when a person has no success on working and a bad interpersonal relationship? When meeting this question in the class, I always give my students an answer in a joking way: To keep a dog and then train it in the name of the leader.

Nowadays, more and more people keep pets in the society. Mile Cyrus Like It Very Much! But why do people spare no effort to take care of these little cats and dogs? First, men need the sense of life controlling in reality, but it is difficult to live in today's society, so that many people are not confident enough in their work and other people.

While "Dogs are best friends of humans". Pets will never betray you. So keeping pets is a display of lacking interpersonal confidence and satisfy the sense of life controlling in another way.

Second, keeping pets like raising children, moreover, you will not have to pay much more energy in comparative to raising child but much less in responsibility. After giving birth to a child, you have to educate him. It is harder than with pets. You have more choices and less educational responsibility when keep a pet. Since no matter raising a child or keeping a pet, both of them can satisfy the needs of showing our loving heart or the wish to communicate with outside world, why not do it?

Third, human life is always various, and the happiness has many appearances in fact. Some people are fond of gardening, some enjoy wine and mahjong, and also some want to keep cats and dogs.

These are different ways to rich spare time; add joys to life, no good or bad, no high or low.